this is about sex & it’s quite personal so here’s the readmore bar for anyone who knows me in person and is not down for this lmao
it weirds me out sooooo much how everyone has sex in college
like I think I didn’t have many close friends, or many mainstream close friends, during the time in high school when sex became the norm in relationships, so I kind of missed it, and now I’m suddenly among all these people who just EXPECT to bang their significant others after a few weeks and I’m kind of like ??????
so I’m totally not at all on their same page and it’s super weird. I’m not dating anyone so it’s nbd right now but I’m sort of concerned about how that’ll go down when the issue comes up, assuming I’m not single for the entire four years of college
I just don’t care about sex that much so the idea of learning to navigate sexual relationships is like… ok but we could just stop at making out so why make it complicated. like I don’t really see what the point of that would be given that it’s such a fraught issue for me
I know that for other people it’s just a fun thing that they WANT to do and I am just not at that point of my life yet and maybe I never will be. which is nbd it’s just gonna be a weird conversation to have if I become involved w/ someone yknow